Filipino women dating black men are a norm these days in America and a number of other western countries. Apart from dating which most Filipino girls might not like as most of them prefer to stay a virgin before marriages most of them decide to get married. Many of these also come to the USA after getting married to an American black man because their husbands sponsor them.
The primary reason many Filipino women decide to marry black men is because they get a lot of respect and are treated in a good manner. Black men give their wives a lot of love and even take care of their children hence these women have a chance to lead a very good and happy life. Most Filipino women also tend to be career-oriented and hence prefer marrying these American men as they get good job opportunities and a well-settled lifestyle. For this reason, most women might also agree to marry an older guy as long as they get the chance to move abroad and live a happy life, hence assuring a strong future for the children as well in terms of education.
Some Filipino women depend on a lot of colour and race they rule out black guys strictly when they are looking for options as to whom they should get married too. Their public profiles strictly state that they are not interested in black men and already want white men. In the Philippines, there is a misconception that black means big hence a lot of Filipinos although might not like black men and they might not even want to be seen around them because they are “ugly” however might agree to have sex with them and earn some money.
The above mentioned is a very small example of how women used to be a couple of years ago and how some uneducated women still think. With more and more education among these women, they understand that differentiating by colour, cast, creed or just by the appearance of someone is not how thing are supposed to be. They have become more intellectual and search for other things in their life partner for example how educated that person is, how much he can earn or simply how loving and caring he is. There are many examples of Filipino women who have married black men and are happily settled in their life
In the end, it depends on how much these guys are dedicated towards their wife and how much time they put in to assure that their relationship works smoothly. Marriage is a two-sided relationship, and black men need also to have a good understanding of how Filipino girls are. They usually value family and motherhood a lot. Even if they decide to work out their family will always be their first priority hence they also expect their partners to be like that. Although they do not mind marrying older men, but they are very conservative when it comes to having sex before marriage and would rather consider its practical implications.